i dont understand the girls that get so caught up and so consumed by lust and the feeling of having someone. i get it, yes. you're lonely. so terribly lonely. then all of a sudden a boy and or girl walks into your life and all is healed! reality check, everyone feels lonely depending on the circumstances. you are just A) desperate or B) clingy. I'm being cynical and a really big bitch. but it makes me so mad to see girls making their boyfriend their everything. their whole entire world. when they aren't even happy themselves. it's so sad. news flash? you can only trust someone as much as your willing to lose. the same goes with dependency. you make that person everything, you lose everything. simple math. how can you love someone 100% if you don't love yourself 100%? Or how can you be happy with someone else if you're not even happy on your own? How girls can be so independent and then all of a sudden be stuck to their significant other like glue. i understand dependence. but girls like you, are excessive. live for yourself first. jesus. you're young. and i KNOW i'm in a relationship. but it took me a lot of hit and misses to get where i am now. and i'm taking it one step at a time, thanks to the advice my significant other gives me. i'm the most independent person you'll meet. but i know i can always rely on him.
just listen. or in this case, read. and learn.
i feel extremely sorry for you. ahem. i mean those kind of girls.
in all honesty i get it, i've been on both ends of the spectrum. but now that i know what it's really supposed to be like and feel like. it sucks knowing these young girls have to go through it all too. we're still growing. give yourself at least some time to grow, before you choose to grow with someone else.